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I had said I'd write something around New Year. However, as some might have noticed, there is no new story up. It's one of those points in time when life is catching up to me, different responsibilities need to be taken care of, and I'm just generally busy. When I do have time I could have used to write, I instead do something else to relax.

But I still think that story should be written. I had started on it, after all. My question to all my readers is if you'd mind if the story had a wiff of Christmas/New Year to it if I were to suddenly find the urge to write it now and post it, or would you preffer I do it some other way?
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  • Listening to: Nothing
  • Reading: with my eyes crossed
  • Watching: the light... so shiny...
  • Playing: Too much...
  • Eating: too unhealthy food
  • Drinking: too much coke

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I had said I'd write something around New Year. However, as some might have noticed, there is no new story up. It's one of those points in time when life is catching up to me, different responsibilities need to be taken care of, and I'm just generally busy. When I do have time I could have used to write, I instead do something else to relax.

But I still think that story should be written. I had started on it, after all. My question to all my readers is if you'd mind if the story had a wiff of Christmas/New Year to it if I were to suddenly find the urge to write it now and post it, or would you preffer I do it some other way?
  • Mood: Tired
  • Listening to: Nothing
  • Reading: with my eyes crossed
  • Watching: the light... so shiny...
  • Playing: Too much...
  • Eating: too unhealthy food
  • Drinking: too much coke
I know I promised a story shortly after Christmas. Honestly, it was supposed to be up by now, but... things have been hectic. I've been very social and being with friends and family a lot and done a lot that have just left me exhausted. Happy, but exhausted, and not really in the right state of mind to write the kind of stories I'm known for. I've started on it, and I will try to get it done soon, but right now, brain needs rest. I hope you all don't mind the wait.

Also worth noting, after that story is posted, I may not post anything for a while. I have my own private writing projects to do that may just get me into the novelist profession. I recently got my book critiqued by a professional, and finally someone could shed some light over what is actually good and bad. Seems the entire book, while off to a good start story-wise, needs to be re-written completely to make sure it's all the best it can be in terms of grammar and other boring stuff that come in the way of telling a good story... So yeah, I'll probably be doing that afterwards. Wish me luck!
  • Mood: Tired
  • Listening to: Nothing
  • Reading: Game text
  • Watching: South Park
  • Playing: Various Mario games
  • Eating: Chocolate
  • Drinking: Milk
Anyone wanna chat? chat.deviantart.com/chat/bwcha… I'll be around for a bit. Feel free to come to chat about anything from everyday issues to anime and games and onto hardcore kink.

In other news, in my poll, the vast majority actually said they'd read a story with a submissive male and dominant female. Both the yes options came out on top. I have an idea for what to write, which is why I posted it to begin with. If all goes as planned, it should be posted sometime right after Christmas.
  • Mood: Sociable
  • Listening to: Radio
  • Reading: One Piece
  • Watching: South Part
  • Playing: Age of Empires 2
  • Eating: Chocolate
  • Drinking: Milk
If I wrote a story with a guy being dominated by a girl being the focus, would you be at all interested in reading?
27%
16 deviants said Yes, I like female dommes
25%
15 deviants said No, I don't like guys in bondage
22%
13 deviants said Yes, I like both of the above
12%
7 deviants said Maybe
10%
6 deviants said Yes, I like guys in bondage
2%
1 deviant said No, I don't like female dommes
2%
1 deviant said Other (please comment)
0%
No deviants said No, I don't like either of the above
It's taken a while, but I'm finally getting around to it. This is the journal in which I'm gonna reveal a lot about myself. Not my name or where exactly I live or anything like that, but some things you may be interested in knowing.

First of all, I'm male. For some reason, many people have guessed I'm female when talking to me... not sure what to make of that. Do I act feminine in my chatting?
Second, I'm straight. Not gay or even a little bisexual. The only gender I am turned on by is the female one.
Third, I'm in my early twenties. For now, I'm not gonna be more specific than that. Hazard a guess on my exact age if you want, but be warned, I may not reveal if you're correct or not.
Fourth, and now we're getting to the good stuff, I'm from Norway. Yup, I finally revealed which country I'm from. Probably gonna update my profile with that info once I've uploaded this.

Still, this is all fairly basic stuff. You probably want something more... personal. And sure, this journal is supposed to give some inside-info on me, so here goes.

First the more innocent stuff. As most of you might know, I'm into anime and manga. I haven't watched a lot of new things recently (or even old things that should be watched), but I'm slowly finding more time to watch and enjoy more anime.
I also like playing games, though I'm not hardcore at it, and I prefer just having fun with friends rather than getting the highest possible level in some MMO (though I still aim to win when it's a competition!). My favorite console is Nintendo, simply for the fun family-friendly games they offer that can be played by many.
I have an education as a sailor (yeah, in case you didn't know, that requires a specific education), and worked as it for 2 years, but I found out it didn't suit me, so I'm back to school, aiming for something closer to my heart. Media. Specifically, filming and video editing. I like filming and making videos, and it's a hobby I, sadly enough, don't spend enough time on. Hopefully the spark will get reignited :)
And as you all know, I tend to write stories. I do have a goal/dream of being a successful novelist, though not in the kinky area, mind you. I prefer fantasy for that :) I have a story in the works, though finding an editor to look it over before I try to send it to a publisher is proving difficult... Please wish me luck.

That's a bit about my private and professional life. Now for a bit about my background.

I'm Christian. Yes, that's right, I'm Christian and into bondage. I'll admit sometimes it feels weird, but I don't think it's against my faith as long as I don't have sex before marriage. And yes, you're assuming right. I've never had sex. I'm a virgin. (If you came here for shocking facts, this is probably the most shocking fact there is going to be, so you can stop reading now.) I'm a 20-something year old virgin, despite being into bondage. It's not as hard as you'd think. Basically, be the nerd that gets picked on at school, be too shy to talk to girls most of your life and be too late to ask out those you do get the nerve to ask out, and BAM! You're a virgin! And I think it's with sex like with alcohol or smoking. The earlier you start, the easier it is to get adicted. So since I haven't yet, it's probably easier for me to go without. Btw, speaking of alcohol and smoking, I don't drink alcohol (by choice) and I don't use any tobacco products (also by choice). Honestly, until I discovered bondage I was what you'd call "pure." Much thanks to my overprotective mother who didn't want me to watch cartoons depicting any kind of violence (she is even opposed to Tom and Jerry, thinking it's too violent...) or movies like Harry Potter. So I was an overprotected child, but through the wonders of internet, I found out about anime and bondage non-the-less. But I don't regret my upbrining. My parents, though overprotective, have always shown me love and has cared for me, and my siblings, though we quarrel, we all know we like having each other :) I was taught basic things like being nice, speaking politely, doing my best at school (I'm more or less a geek with A and B grades. I even got glasses!) and other things which I think are dropping in quality in our society these days.

Anyway, that's that. Now for the part you came to read about. The bondage.

Ever since I was a kid, I found a fascination with tie-up games and enjoyed them, though others didn't seem to. It wasn't sexual. As a kid, I thought it was just interesting and fun. But when I found bondage art on the web, that changed...
I think I found the first bondage art on the web by the great :iconguardian457:. I was drawn to it for reasons to me unknown. I looked through his entire gallery. I was hooked, but didn't really get what I was seeing until many months later, when I started browsing around more. Of course, I was under 18 and didn't have an account at the time, so a lot of artwork was inaccessible to me. But artwork of women in tight bondage always found their way to my screen. Boy am I glad I got my own laptop after not too long...
I've roleplayed with many people, both here and on a nice roleplay site called Nabbers Empire (NE for short, link here --> ne.bgagger.net/ ), both more consensual and forceful scenes, almost anything from innocent tie-up-games to more hardcore BDSM ans sexual scenes. Sometimes, I wonder if the fact I'm a virgin shows, though I believe I've picked up what I need to know to roleplay well, at least. I often flirt with people to some extent, saying things like "oh, the things I'd do to you~" or "too bad I'm not there ;)" but it's just me teasing, basically, as I'm saving myself for marriage, and though bondage in and by itself wouldn't be out of the question (clothed bondage, mind you), sexual acts would be.
Some of you might by this point think I have decieved you with my "act," though I just want to say that if you feel tricked, you have your own assumptions to thank for it. I can't remember ever outright lying about anything, though I will admit I've been very evasive and misleading sometimes.
Anyway, moving on.
For many years at first when I got into bondage, I felt like I was a dom. It was the default male role, I guess, and let's admit it, seeing pictures of hot girls in bondage does make you wanna have a go at dominating them ;P But eventually, I did some self-bondage. First hardly any. I hardly had rope, no tape handy, and really no proper bondage gear. Self-bondage wasn't something I did at a regular basis. Far from it. But during the beginning of this year, something changed. I did more self-bondage. I wanted to be tied up more myself. I started checking up more artwork of guys in bondage too (with female dommes! I'm straight, remember?), and eventually, I bought more rope, some tape and even some chains and padlocks to entertain myself with. Of course, while I had more fun now and learned to tie myself up, it always felt too... improvised. So this year I purchased my first proper bondage gear. A selection of, among other things, gags, cuffs, a blindfold and a hood to begin with, but I feel like I'll expand my toybox soon. I use my stuff for self-bondage quite often, and while I still know I can be dominant, I've realized that by my very nature, I'm probably more of a sub. I like to help people and do things for others, and even if I'm dominant I still think a successful session requires the sub to enjoy herself. If she doesn't, I fail as a dom. Simple as that. So yeah, I might actually be a sub, though for now I classify myself as a switch. If I at some point get a girlfriend and find out she's into bondage, I think I'll be able to bend between my submissive and dominant personality depending on what will make my girlfriend the most happy. After all, love can change people.
Now, as for fetishes I have, appart from bondage, I do have a thing for chastity. The thought of having my very center for pleasure controlled by a Mistress is arousing, and vice versa, controlling a sub's center for pleasure that way. I also find anal play quite fascinating, and I have a bit of a foot fetish, liking the thought of being made to kiss and lick a Mistress' feet. I also have a maid fetish, enjoying seeing the female gender dressed in revealing French maid outfits, prefferably made of latex ;) Latex in general is cool, catsuits too, though in reality I guess it's not the most practical.
But the fetish I really have a love for is 24/7 dom/sub relationships. I think I could learn to like that either way, though if I got together with a switch, then I guess anything really could happen ;)

So yeah, after that loooong ramble about me and bondage and what I like and such, it's time to end this journal. It took so long to get it written compared to what I originally had in mind... on the other hand, you can look at this as an early Christmas present from me =P

If you have any questions you'd like to ask that wasn't answered here, trivial or deep, feel free to ask. I can't guarantee I'll answer (for all you know I may even just reply with a "knock-knock" joke), but if I find your question interesting, relevant, intelligent or in general not too intrusive for my taste, you may be in luck.

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  • Mood: Tense
  • Listening to: Yu-Gi-Oh! Arc-V Opening 2
  • Reading: Subtitles
  • Watching: Trigun
  • Playing: Age of Empires 2
  • Eating: Chocolate crackers
  • Drinking: Coka Cola

If I wrote a story with a guy being dominated by a girl being the focus, would you be at all interested in reading? 

27%
16 deviants said Yes, I like female dommes
25%
15 deviants said No, I don't like guys in bondage
22%
13 deviants said Yes, I like both of the above
12%
7 deviants said Maybe
10%
6 deviants said Yes, I like guys in bondage
2%
1 deviant said No, I don't like female dommes
2%
1 deviant said Other (please comment)
0%
No deviants said No, I don't like either of the above

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The-Walking-Dead-Fan Featured By Owner Aug 19, 2014  Student Artist
Hello :)
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bondagewriter Featured By Owner Aug 19, 2014  Hobbyist Writer
Hi :) Anything you want?
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The-Walking-Dead-Fan Featured By Owner Aug 19, 2014  Student Artist
I love your stories :)
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bondagewriter Featured By Owner Aug 19, 2014  Hobbyist Writer
Well, I'm glad to hear that ^^
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J-B-Hickock Featured By Owner Mar 15, 2014  Professional Writer
Thanks for watching me.
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bondagewriter Featured By Owner Mar 15, 2014  Hobbyist Writer
Thanks for watching me back :)
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My pleasure :)
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WeirdAndLovely Featured By Owner Sep 27, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Tag a quality deviant, You’re it! Quality doesn’t mean that you have a lot of followers, or a lot of messages. It means that you’re nice to other people, and you deserve to be happy. If you get this message, someone is telling you that they love you as you are, and they don’t care how much followers you have. Send this to 10 deviants who deserve it. If you break the chain, nothing will happen. But it’s just good to let someone know that you love them! ♥

I miss reading your stuff BW!
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bondagewriter Featured By Owner Sep 27, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Wow... thanks. Didn't expect something like this out of the blue.

I'm sorry I haven't posted anything recently, but I'm just not in the mood to write... I've got real world issues taking its toll on me, and when I have a chance where I could write I just end up doing other things to relax and unwind. But I hope to get back to writing soon.
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